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​小戒指誕生記

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​11月13日清晨5點,我上廁所時發現來紅了,內心很激動,我摸著肚皮說:寶寶妳要出來囉?媽媽做好準備等妳了哦。
我搖醒了先生,告訴他這件事,不過我還沒宮縮,距離生產應該還有一段時間,所以我在1小時候伴著尾骨疼痛很累的睡著了。睡醒後我跟催眠生產老師Lim Treng Ching聊了一下,她說我還可以回她訊息就是時間未到,生活先一切如常。於是,我安排了當天下午產前瑜伽網課(舒緩心情+幫助順產),還有隔天的工作。

11月14日,徹夜未眠。宮縮從13日晚上到14日早晨,每幾分鐘一次宮縮,尾骨痛到我坐立難安,更別說睡覺。
早上的宮縮稍微舒緩些,我告訴先生,已經安排好的工作就如常進行吧,可以分散我宮縮和尾骨痛的注意力。工作時偶爾宮縮,團隊看到我臉部扭曲痛苦樣子就知道我正在經歷宮縮。當晚又是一個長夜,比前一晚的宮縮更頻密。

11月15日凌晨2點多,羊水破了,宮縮維持在每10分鐘一次。先生開始計算每次宮縮的相隔時間,若到了3分鐘一次就要去醫院。時間真的很漫長,整個夜晚我就在客廳的瑜伽球上做polar bear姿勢讓自己舒服點,但真的好累好累,每個宮縮相隔的6、7分鐘,我也累得睡去,再被宮縮弄醒。
到了清晨6點,宮縮來到每3分鐘一次,我吃了一片麵包(要多出一倍的時間才能吃下),洗澡和洗頭後,在早上9點到了醫院。醫護人員用輪椅把我從緊急處推入,這是我第一次坐輪椅,看到產房牌子時,我激動得流淚了,寶寶真的要來了!今天哭了兩次,第一次是清晨時分,思紅Si Fong說她明白宮縮的痛,我眼淚流不停,整個孕程她都在引導我,也了解我追崇的自然產的目標。
助產士檢查後子宮頸才開了3公分,原本我的計劃是開4到6公分才入院,但三天沒睡我真的好累,於是決定入院。醫生說若順利大概每小時開一公分,晚上七八點就可以見到寶寶了。
幾小時後開了5公分,到了晚上7點開始維持在5公分,我在產房走來走去,有時坐在瑜伽球上,有時在床上抱著瑜伽球,先生加強精油香薰味道,還有泡覆盆子濃茶來幫助產程。
對,我們帶了許多“工具”到產房。我們上過催眠生產課,也追求相信自己身體和寶寶力量的生產目標,所以我不打無痛分娩針,也不催生,若沒有緊急情況,醫生都會尊重我的意願,讓我用自己的方式生產。間中醫生來關心我情況,我問她能做些什麼來加速產程嗎?她很專業的說,”you don’t want it”。

到了午夜11點多,助產士檢查後說10公分全開,不允許我上廁所了,有任何需要就在產床上解決吧。宮縮一陣陣來襲,我一開始不能掌控力道,每次宮縮時助產士會告訴我,有5分錢了、有1毛錢、看到2毛錢了,哇看到寶寶的頭了哦,頭髮很少。
接著醫生來了,在她引導下終於用對力氣,我全身顫抖,雙腿更是抖得厲害。先生不斷的給我按摩、安慰鼓勵的話語、在我宮縮時托起我的背助力。
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11月16日,凌晨2點多,折騰了3小時,我擔心我和寶寶都會力氣用盡,同意醫生側剪會陰,我還問醫生會剪多長。一會,小戒指在凌晨3點09分順利誕生,送到我懷裡時,我忍著醫生正縫針的痛,顫抖的給小戒指唱“祝你生日快樂”。我抱著小戒指肌膚相依,她哭聲很響亮,不用抽掉口鼻分泌物就呼吸順暢,身上的胎脂也不用洗掉,就這樣skin to skin bonding依偎在我身上兩小時才送往嬰兒房。
產程沒有藥物助力,產後沒吃pain killer,但我恢復得很快,產後休息幾小時就不需要護士,可以自己上廁所,當然下半身會痛。所以,我很樂意告訴準媽媽們,如果一切正常沒有突發狀況,請一定要相信自己的身體。
這個產程經歷很棒,我和先生通過課程清楚了解我的身體將如何運作,也有一個願意配合的好醫生,所以沒有懼怕,充分相信我和寶寶的力量。我已經催眠自己一定辦得到,而先生也知道他該如何幫助我,在我們和寶寶的努力下,一切都很美好。
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